3 months out
It's
been 3 months since Alethia's birth. Since then, I've mostly been a
homebody, trying to get a handle on my new normal, but we did get the chance to
visit the Kpalime schools to introduce her to the teachers. Togolese
baby girls have their ears pierced shortly after their birth, but Alethia's
ears are untouched, so everyone thinks she's a boy. I put her in purple
and pink, but added a bow to help them figure it out since Togolese don't
assign gender to color.
Aside from the earrings and all
colors being neutral, I've noticed some other differences of mothering an
infant between Togolese and American cultures. Togolese wear their babies
on their backs, while Americans usually just carry them in their arms or wear
them in a wrap on their front. Backwards. My house-helper calls me
special. :-) Then there are the diapers. Togolese
babies don’t always wear them. Many
babies here rarely wear them, actually. Not my cup of tea.
So life goes on, and mostly I’m just
doing what I would normally do (based on the culture I was raised in). It’s definitely an adjustment, though, going
back to being a mother of a baby again. This week has been good (as far as homeschooling
during naptime goes), but then . . . it’s only Tuesday. I’m
sure there will be good weeks and not so good weeks ahead. At least they’re cute.